About

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Welcome to Open Hands, Soft Palms

You’re not broken. You’re awakening.

If you’ve found yourself here, it’s likely because something within you is stirring — a quiet voice yearning for connection, healing, erotic power, and truth. Maybe you're tired of feeling disconnected from your body. Maybe you've carried emotional pain for far too long. Or maybe you're finally ready to explore the deeper wisdom of your feminine nature.

You’re in the right place.

I’m Jacinta Lee — Sexologist, Sex Educator, Love, Sex & Relationship Coach, Registered Nurse, Yoga Teacher, Author, and founder of Open Hands, Soft Palms.

But more than my titles, I am a woman who’s walked the path of trauma, shame, disconnection, and survival — and emerged with a deep reverence for the sacred feminine and the healing power of erotic embodiment.

From Surviving to Soaring: My Journey

In my early twenties, I entered therapy to address the complex layers of trauma I carried — from CHSA and emotional abuse to trauma-induced ADHD, dyslexia, and complex PTSD. As I unpacked these layers, I realised something was still missing:

I had no real, spiritual, or embodied understanding of my own sexuality.

I knew biology. I knew religion’s judgments. I knew how to protect myself in relationships. But I didn’t know how to feel safe in my body, how to connect to my erotic essence, or how to trust the wisdom of my femininity.

That awakening came when I finally — nervously and reluctantly — attended my first Shakti Circle. What I found was the opposite of what I feared: tenderness, emotional safety, shared wisdom, and a kind of sacred connection I had never known.

What I Learned, and Now Teach

Over the next decade, I immersed myself in the Sacred Feminine Arts, exploring tantra, erotic archetypes, somatic healing, shadow work, lineage repair, sacred ritual, embodiment practices, psychology, yoga, spiritualism and beyond.

I wasn’t just studying — I was remembering who I truly was.

Now, I bring all of that wisdom together — along with formal training in the VITA Method, clinical experience as a Registered Nurse, and a Master’s in Sexology in progress — to support women like you.

Who I Work With

I support women who:

  • Feel disconnected from their sensuality or body

  • Are healing from trauma, disempowerment, or shame

  • Long for more depth, presence, and erotic aliveness

  • Are curious about the Sacred Feminine but don’t know where to start

  • Are tired of feeling like sex, intimacy, and self-love are taboo or inaccessible

Whether you’re new to this path or deep into your journey, my role is to guide you home — to your body, to your pleasure, to your power.

What You’ll Find Here

At Open Hands, Soft Palms, you’ll find:

🌹 Practical somatic education to reconnect with your body
🌹 Erotic empowerment tools rooted in love, not performance
🌹 Sacred feminine practices for healing, embodiment, and sensual awakening
🌹 A supportive sisterhood of women reclaiming their truth
🌹 Resources & books to guide your personal journey

This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you’ve always been — and doing it in a space that feels nourishing, grounded, and safe.

Ready to Begin?

This space is an invitation to soften, explore, and expand — on your terms.

Explore my website, browse my books, or join a program designed to reconnect you with the wisdom of your own sacred femininity.

Let’s walk this journey together — one open hand, one soft palm at a time.

With love,

Jacinta Lee

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Qualifications

Masters in Sexology (currently completing)

Post Graduate Certificate in Sexology (2025)

Certificate 4 Assessment and Training (2025)

VITA Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching (2022)

Hatha Yoga Teacher (2021)

Bachelor of Health Science - Nursing (2011)

Certificate 3 Hairdressing (2001)

“I believe knowledge is power. When you truly understand your body, your yoni, and your feminine essence, you unlock a magical inner world filled with your unique sexuality and erotic beauty”

— Jacinta Lee